The Four Biggest Lessons I Learned from Buying My First Home

You know that old adage, “you never forget the first?” – first kiss, first job, first big financial purchase. You’ll also never forget your first home, and I know I won’t forget mine. I’ve documented my home ownership story on my blog quite a bit, (here, here, and here) and it’s definitely been a roller coaster. But there have also been lots of amazing lessons. Here’s what I learned from buying my first home.

You have to have your financial act together

Before you even start talking to real estate agents you should be double and triple checking aspects of your finances that lenders are going to scrutinize. These items might include you credit report, employment and rental history, and pulling financial docs like W2’s and tax returns.

You and your lender are going to become BFFs during this process so you want to make sure they are seeing the best you that you can be. If that means taking some time to raise your credit score or save up for the down payment, do it!

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Doing Your Research Pays Off (Big Time)

When you’re a first time homebuyer you won’t have a ton of real estate experience.

And unfortunately, the process of actually buying a home isn’t as slick and painless as Sitcoms or Reality TV shows (looking at you, HGTV!) make it out to be. Educating yourself will make such a difference on all aspects of the process, so be sure to ask lots of questions! This includes your real estate agent, contractors, mortgage brokers…pretty much anyone involved.

Trust me, it is way better to ask and maybe feel a little dumb than to miss out on opportunities or offers because you didn’t.

Besides, these people should be making your life easier and be willing to help (and if they aren’t then you shouldn’t be using them.)

Beyond education, researching different ways to save money on buying a home can be as simple as googling “[city name here] down payment assistance”. I was able to buy a house for less than $2000 by using down payment assistance programs and finding a home in an area that qualified for other forms of assistance. So instead of paying $20k upfront I was able to keep some cash in my pocket – all it cost me was the time needed to fill out the paperwork.

Buying My First Home Taught Me There’s A Thin Line Between “Fixer Upper” and “Total Disaster”

Every house with “good bones” doesn’t come with a hunky man in flannel to install new cabinets or redo the bathrooms, you’ve either got to do it yourself or pay someone else to do it for you. Not saying you should purchase a fixer upper if you want one, just think about what kind of commitment you are willing to make when buying your first home.

I wouldn’t typically recommend a “project house” for first timers unless you’re looking to flip the home for a profit or it’s going to be your forever home. Just think – a cheap fixer upper can quickly become an expensive money pit if you’re not careful!

Despite the Learning Curve, Buying a Home Can Be a Beautiful Thing

Aside from these important financial lessons, buying a home has been an incredible experience for me. I’ve been able to make rental income from the home, which allowed me to pay down debt and save up money so I could leave my full time job! It’s also provided me with a sense of stability and financial empowerment you just can’t buy.

Home is a happy place, and even though rentals have their advantages….you don’t get to customize them as much as you can with a home. I’ve loved being able to put my stamp on a place so it truly feels like “my house.” I’ve spent three very happy years here in my first home and I wouldn’t change it for it the world.

This post was written as part of the Allstate Influencer Program and sponsored by Allstate. All opinions are mine. As the nation’s largest publicly held personal lines insurer, Allstate is dedicated not only to protecting what matters most–but to help protect your firsts and the moments in between. Share your firsts with #HeresToFirsts

 

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  • Jessica
    August 12, 2016 at 12:14 pm

    Love this post! Thank you for sharing! I’m just starting my research to buy my first home hopefully next year. My favorite financial first was when I was finally able to rent an apartment on my own.

    Ps. I found this post through Pinterest, and the first paragraph of your post where you have “(here, here, and here)” for your past home buying posts doesn’t have links. Just wanted to let you know so that it will be easier for new readers to find those 🙂

  • Stacy B Miller
    June 2, 2016 at 11:52 pm

    A very informative article. If you have kids then definitely look for school near by before buying your house. It will be very helpful for your kids as well as it will increase your property value if you go for re-selling

    • Lauren Bowling
      June 13, 2016 at 3:19 pm

      Yes! that’s a great point. I don’t have kids, so sometimes I forget to mention this. Thank you!

  • Stefanie OConnell
    June 1, 2016 at 3:15 pm

    Buying a home is still SO intimidating to me. I also don’t know that I can commit to living in the same place for any prolonged period of time 🙂

    • Lauren Bowling
      June 13, 2016 at 3:19 pm

      I think this was the point I was most naive on when I bought. I thought “5 years is nothing!”…actually it’s a pretty long time 🙂

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