It never ceases to amaze me how surprised people are when I tell them that I'm unmarried and I own my home. I was car shopping this past weekend, filling out the requisite paperwork and the sales guy asked a few casual questions.
“Rent or own? You rent your home, right?”
“No, I own.”
“Oh.” He said with a look of surprise and checked off the “Own” box on the credit application.
I'd argue that nowadays (especially with the abundance of millennial related real-estate articles on the internet) many millennials are forgoing home ownership for two reasons.
One: they wait until marriage because at that point they probably have a better idea of where they want to live, stability in the workplace, etc. Two: They value low key, low maintenance lifestyles and homeownership often doesn't fit this value point.
My feelings on that particular point are enough to fill up another post for another day, but since I get the question a lot, I thought I'd finally lay it all out: how to buy a home in your twenties (I did at the tender age 26) and doing it when you don't make a lot of money (I was making less than $40k a year when I applied for my mortgage.)
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How to Buy a Home in Your 20s
Know Where You Want to Live
I moved off to New York at 23. After two years in the city, I wanted to move back home to Georgia, and not just for the interim.
Having had the experience of living far away from home was an amazing thing, because it taught me what I did and did not want.
I knew that moving back south was (most likely) for the long haul, so I felt comfortable with the decision to put down some official, and expensive, “roots.”
Even though buying such a large home without thinking about shifting circumstances is something I wish I'd done differently, I don't regret the action of buying the home.
I would have bought purchased something either way, because as I said, I knew Atlanta was where I wanted to live for the long haul. After you hone in on where you want to lay down roots, it's time to roll up your sleeves and figure out how much you can afford.
Shore Up Your Credit
Twenty-somethings may have low (or no) credit which means you'll have a hard time getting approved for a mortgage. For those who have no credit, try opening up a credit card with a small limit and paying it off every month. For those with established credit, be sure to review your credit report, keep your balances at 30% or below your credit limit, and pay all balances on time.
Get Pre-Approval for a Mortgage
You can't seriously shop without knowing how much home you can afford, but getting pre-approved for a mortgage is actually super easy. I like this Bankrate calculator to play with the numbers to see how your monthly payment would be affected depending upon your interest rate and money down. You can get pre-qualified with any lender, the bank you have your checking and savings accounts with, or with specific home lenders.
You should also be aware of the types of loan products. Many first-time buyers can qualify for an FHA loan (and only put 3.5% of the purchase price down) and having a lower down payment helps alleviate a lot of the financial barriers to homeownership. Also don't be afraid to rate shop. We like to recommend LendingTree for this, which you can visit by clicking the link below.
Aggressively Save for a Set Period of Time
Okay, so you know how much you can afford for a mortgage, but what about a down payment? If you don't have large nest egg or a gift from family members, it's time to start trimming the budget and start saving aggressively.
Right around the time I moved home, I started this blog, and subsequently started reading a mountain of personal finance blogs and articles.
Opinions differ, but for the most part the consensus is that buying real estate can be a great way to increase your net worth and maximize your dollars (since essentially when you own, you're paying for something to keep for the long haul, or “paying yourself.”)
- Before leaving New York I received a final bonus payment from my old job, (to the tune of 16k) that comprised a large chunk of my savings.
- Even though I was making under 40k at my first job in Atlanta, when I was ready to get serious about home buying I steadily saved 20% of my paycheck since I didn't have any credit card debt at that time.
- I also was making a little money from my blog side hustle at the time and was putting a good portion of those funds away as well.
By the time I went to purchase I had about 10 of that original 16k left, plus the few grand I'd managed to save up from work and side hustling and it only took me about six months to get to that point.
When you don't make a lot, it is easy to dip into your savings to fund trips, gifts, holidays, etc.
I could have been more frugal, but since I wasn't putting that money on the cards like I used to, I considered it a win.
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Research and Leverage Down Payment Assistance
One thing I did do right in my first home purchase was that I researched the crap out of every down payment assistance and grant program that I could find. In 2013, the city of Atlanta was offering $15,000 in down payment assistance grants to first-time homeowners who purchased foreclosures in certain neighborhoods.
It was a good bit of paperwork, but in return I received $15,000 in down payment assistance. It's a “soft loan” which gets forgiven a little bit each year. I also could use the money however I chose–for down payment, principal or both. I only had to pay $1800 at the closing plus the $500 in earnest money.
Do Your Homework
It wasn't just the down payment assistance that led me to this particular home. Having worked for a hedge fund, I knew a little bit about how and why to do research, otherwise known as due dilligence, on a house.
I drove by this particular house several times before I was under contract:
- at night
- during the day
- in both the morning and afternoon rush hour (to gauge traffic)
I read press releases and news articles on activity in the area and dig a lot of google digging. I spent time in the neighborhood, in the parks, I went to the neighborhood association meeting (if you're looking to buy in an “up and coming neighborhood” make sure it has an active neighborhood association, this has made all the difference when it comes to my comfort level and outlook on my neighborhood.)
Attending the NA meeting allowed me to hear about projects in the works for our area. A new city library is already under construction two blocks from my home, the school on my block has reopened, and a police precinct is planned for later this year.
This way nothing can surprise you once you move in!
Don't Buy More Home than You Can Afford
This is probably the biggest key to being a twenty-something homeowner. When you have a lower salary, large student loan payments, and other variables in your budget, it's important to buy a home you can comfortably afford. Think of your mortgage, taxes, fees, insurance and maintenance in your budget as well. Homeownership is smart–but can be expensive if you don't prepare.
And remember: Just because they approved you for an amount doesn't mean you have to buy up to that limit.
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